The Only Worthy Perfectionism is Being Perfectly You…
Secret: You're Already Perfect
There’s something quietly sacred about spring—the promise of rebirth, the stirring of a new kind of light. It invites us to loosen the grip of winter’s self-doubt, and stretch open toward becoming. And yet, many of us remain paused at the threshold, tethered by an old illusion: perfectionism.
We wait to begin. We wait to speak. We wait to be ready.
“If it can’t be perfect, I just won’t do it… It won’t be good enough. I’ll embarrass myself.”
Perfectionism is not prudence. It’s not care. It’s not excellence. It’s a trickster—one that poses as virtue while draining your light.
It says: raise the bar so high you can’t start. Measure yourself by someone else’s timeline. Don’t move until it’s flawless. Don’t risk being seen while unfinished.
But what is the cost of this performance? What dreams are delayed? What joy is diminished when we bind ourselves to an unattainable standard?
How Perfectionism Sneaks In
It shows up quietly, under layers of “I should.”
We over-edit, afraid to sound foolish.
We abandon the canvas, telling ourselves we’re not real artists.
We delay launching the idea, fearing it’s not enough.
We rework and revise our words, silencing the very essence that made them beautiful.
And even when we’re still, it whispers: "You’re behind. You’re too much. You’re not enough."
The perfectionist voice is not truth. It is fear wrapped in self-judgment. And it keeps us from the sacred act of showing up as we are.
What Is the Cost?
Every time we defer our expression until we feel flawless, we delay our becoming. We silence our intuitive voice. We miss moments of connection that only happen when we are real.
We drain our creative life force trying to earn a gold star that was never needed.
“I do not hustle to prove. I do not perform to survive.” “I root myself in self-trust. I rise in sovereignty.” Still I Shine Manifesto
These aren’t just poetic lines from the Still I Shine Manifesto. This is your permission slip—to be who we already are, and trust that it is enough.
What If Perfection Is Just… Being Fully You?
You are not the sum of your polish. You are the vessel of a sacred spark.
Your creativity—your art, your work, your way of showing up—is not meant to impress. It’s meant to express the divine through the filter of your uniqueness.
“You are a work of sacred self-renewal.”
The truth is: You are not the source. You are the channel. The ideas, insights, and offerings that want to come through you will not wait for your perfection. They are asking only for your willingness.
The more honest you are, the more magnetic.The more vulnerable, the more powerful.The more real, the more radiant.
A Practice for Reclaiming Your Light
This Easter, try this gentle ritual to soften the perfectionist grip:
Light a candle. Let it represent your truest self—alive, flickering, unrepeatable.
Write down one area where perfectionism has held you back. Fold the paper and bless it with forgiveness.
Speak aloud:"I am not here to be perfect. I am here to be real."
Open your journal and ask:What wants to come through me now, just as I am?
Let your Light Within answer.
Final Words for the Radiant One Reading This:
You are not late. You are not broken. You are not unready.
You are perfectly placed to begin.
So let yourself create. Let yourself be seen. Let yourself unfold—not flawlessly, but freely.
“There is a vitality, a life force, an energy that is translated through you into action, and because there is only one of you in all of time, this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and will be lost. The world will not have it. It is not your business to determine how good it is nor how valuable nor how it compares with other expressions. It is your business to keep it yours clearly and directly, to keep the channel open. You do not even have to believe in yourself or your work. You have to keep yourself open and aware to the urges that motivate you. Keep the channel open….” Martha: The Life and Work of Martha Graham” by Agnes de Mille.
Today, do not rise for others. Rise for you. Because you already are what you seek to perfect.
Still I Shine. Even now. Especially now.
With love and a spark of your own Mojo,
Angelique
so nurturing, so inspiring!